Saturday, April 25, 2020

Our 'hit'

In this COVID-CHAOS we've all had a moment (or moments) where we feel like we've been hit by a tonne of bricks. Ours came this week when our flight to the US for our annual trip was canceled.

We logically knew we wouldn't be going to the US in June given the sh*t storm it is and the relative calm we have in AUS. See below for comparison stats




But that email that said "We are contacting you to advise that your itinerary has changed" was a gut punch. 

The subsequent 'itinerary change' did provide much comedy, though, as our return flight from the US hadn't been impacted and had us departing the US before we would have arrived!

Updated itinerary for getting to the US
Original itinerary in full
I phoned and immediately reached a human - wow! - who graciously canceled and directed me to the online refund request form, which is already being processed. 

(It should be noted that I was disappointed to reach a human so quickly as I LOVE their hold music! You're welcome.)

Maybe by October I'll be able to visit for my niece's Bat Mitzvah, but not holding my breath.

Much love πŸ’• from Down Under πŸ‡¦πŸ‡Ί Stay safe and be sane, 'Murica πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ

Sunday, April 12, 2020

MMUN BC

Like the rest of the world, we now divide time into BC and AD - Before COVID-19 and After Distancing. Though I think that's a bit misleading given we're actually DC - During COVID-19 but that lacks historic significance at this point.

We all have a COVID-19 story. Here's our BC:

The Sat 29 Feb departure date was quickly approaching. The excitement was growing. So was the anxiety and nervousness. Luckily, though, the excitement prevailed. Some emails were exchanged between parents and school about COVID, whether the trip should continue, how the kids would be kept healthy and safe, etc. In early February, the parent info night was scheduled and school expected COVID to be a hot topic of debate. It wasn't. Cell phones dominated. Should the kids have personal phones or not? What would they do in an emergency? How often could they ring home if they didn't have a phone? How would they take pictures without a phone? What if, what if, what if...?

Trying on suits! Winner :-) 

The bag was packed. New suit, dress shoes, warm clothes. Warm clothes. NY is cold in Feb / March, he must have forgotten what cold feels like. Don't forget the MMUN binder. That's what this is all about, after all. Montessori Model United Nations. What an experience for the kid. What. An. Experience.



Departure day. No tears. So brave (for both E and mom). Fly little bird. Fly. Tracking the flight. Wondering, but not worrying. He's safe. He needs this. I need this.

With my big guy on departure day

The group - 3 incredible educators + 10 students!

By Mon, two days after departure, public schools are no longer allowed international excursions. Oh. They left just in time. No handshaking.

Reassuring emails. Parent WhatsApp messages flying. Phone calls home. Positive reports. No call from E, but that's ok. A visit from his Nani and Papi <3 So much love. Exploding with love. Our hearts are so full. Still no call. Daily emails. Pictures. He's ok.

With Nani & Papi in NYC! What a lucky guy.

The conference begins. He is a delegate from the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia. The arms race in space. I don't understand it at all, but he does. Pictures, videos, swapping home-country trinkets. Success.

Social distancing introduced. Keep distance. Prevent the spread. Flatten the curve. Stay home (STAY HOME) if you're sick.

One phone call at school's insistence. We were ok. He was ok.

The long flight home. Crossing the International Date Line, leaving the US 8 March, arriving home to AUS 10 March. And somewhere mid-air, the email. MMUN arrivals should not return to school for 6 days. Siblings, too. Anyone that came in contact with the overseas group. Okay, we can do this. We knew this could happen. I can work from home, take time off. We'll make this work. We always do.

He's back! 

Some of the travelers got sick. Tests. Negative. All negative. How did they dodge this bullet? They left the US just in time.

AUS acted quickly. Quarantine. Self-isolation. Stay home. STAY HOME. Borders closed. STAY HOME. Wash hands. Social distance. Don't touch your face. STAY HOME.

And yet, we feel so fortunate that our bird had this opportunity BC.


Tuesday, January 21, 2020

Happy Australiaversary to us!

Today is our third Australiaversary πŸ‡¦πŸ‡Ί As cliche as it is, it's hard to believe it's been three years since we first arrived to Sydney.



Eytan was 8 yrs old and Micah was 5 yrs old; Micah is now the same age Eytan was when we arrived! It's so hard to wrap my head around this.

This photo was from 23 Jan 2017. M wore those shorts
a few days ago and was wearing that shirt this
morning (pictured here on E). M still sleeps with
"kangy" that he picked out that day.

Micah is undoubtedly the most Aussie of all of us, having lived 3/8 of his life Down Under. One of his favourite songs is 'I Am Australian'. It's up for review and debate whether he has an accent; he doesn't sound fully Aussie, nor does he sound fully American (though he skews strongly American). His lingo is undoubtedly Aussie. His love of American sport leaves no doubt which country issued his passport (and who his father is, lol).

Still not sold on vegemite but we keep it in the house for visitors!

Our 18-month adventure has (happily!) turned indefinite. We're finalising materials to submit our application for permanent residency and my once far-off dream of having dual-citizenship may actually come true! Forget an inheritance - Aaron has decided this will be his legacy to our children.

We've figured out driving on the left hand side of the road, we've been in awe of Uluru, we've learnt a new language (and spelling!), marveled at the Reef, explored Tassie, enjoyed The Tennis and so much more!

Our family has evolved in incredible ways and I'm crazy proud of us. Since we're here for the foreseeable future book a flight and come for a visit!

Monday, January 13, 2020

We're okay!

We've been inundated with the most beautiful messages to check on us from so many parts of our lives - friends from childhood, acquaintances of our parents and grandparents, friends from high school, university, jobs early in our careers, many cities we've lived in, many cities we haven't lived in. Just so much love, concern and care. Thank you!

We've been thinking about writing this post for so long but it's been really difficult. In part because the crisis isn't over.

So, what the hell is going on in Australia?

It's bushfire season. It's a thing. Around Sydney, bushfires kicked up late October. We'd have an occasional day where we'd wake up and have to close all the windows because it would smell so smoky. Outdoor play at school was turned indoors. Baseball would get canceled. The sky would be hazy. For days. We'd hope and pray for rain. But it didn't come. The sky would be hazier. Ash would fall like snow. Ferries would be canceled due to low visibility. Schools had 'fire' days instead of 'snow' days. Hundreds of fires in New South Wales. Hundreds of fires in Victoria. Our country was ablaze. Small bushfires couldn't be contained. Homes destroyed. Lives lost. Animals gone. A billion creatures.

But we're okay. There aren't fires directly in Sydney. The nearest fires are outside the city. Some in the mountains to the west. Some to the south. Really bad in the south coast of our state (NSW, which combined with another fire in N Victoria) - that's what most people saw on TV the first weekend in January. Devastation.

This photo is from Sunday 12 Jan looking from Victoria Rd in Balmain / Rozelle toward the CBD ("city") about 4kms away. It was one of the smokiest days we've had, though it doesn't look as bad as other days have looked.


There are still hundreds of fires. There are firies from all over the world that have come to help. Heaps of American firies. They're celebrities arriving to the airport with their gear and game faces. Help from all over the world. Our neighbourhood community has rallied so beautifully, donating anything we can that is requested. I'd imagine all communities are doing the same.

Food being dropped in ravaged areas for wildlife. NYC putting up stuffed koalas to encourage ppl to donate to WIRES to help the animals. A concert. Controlled burns to prevent catastrophic uncontrolled fires. Tributes.

Please don't think this crisis has been solved just because you may have stopped hearing about it. Australia can't do this alone <3